In Memory of

Alexandra

L.

Valoras
From
Natalie Gurule
Date
Saturday, July 20, 2019
Message
Your story has touched my soul. I am saddened by this and I never knew you. But I was you. Your parents love you. You were more than good enough. You were perfect.
From
Nick
Date
Tuesday, April 02, 2019
Message
So Sad thank you for sharing her story :(
From
Ruth Stoops
Date
Sunday, March 24, 2019
Message
Your daughter's story is being shared on College Confidential, a place where hundreds if not thousands of super-talented, stressed-out kids congregate. I do believe that giftednesss itself can be a risk factor. Parents receive constant praise in the early years about the gifted child but the truth is, the things that lead to this designation - rumination, perfectionism - can turn on you easily. I myself might have been in this category. If you ask yourself, why didn't she tell us, why did she hide it? I can say, looking at her diary, that it is just such a distortion of reality in your mind that feels like the most clarity you have ever had in your life. You believe the lies of depression so completely that it would not lead you to seek help, because it feels like unassailable fact. I'm so sorry!
From
Deb Nies
Date
Sunday, March 17, 2019
Message
Thank you for sharing Alexandra's and your story on CBS Sunday Morning today. It means more to me than you'll ever know. Love to your family.
From
Steve
Date
Sunday, March 17, 2019
Message
I am so sorry for your loss. My wife and I watched CBS Sunday Morning today. This afternoon we watched it again with our eleven and thirteen year old girls. We all talked about it for thirty minutes after. The ukulele struck home as our older has been playing. Thank you for sharing your grief. I think I understand why you did it so publicly and my wife and I are grateful.
From
Susan Mouradian
Date
Sunday, March 17, 2019
Message
I watched your story today on Sunday morning and my heart aches for you and your family. Such a beautiful talented smart young lady with so much to offer the world. Please find comfort in knowing your story may help others that are internally having a dark moment. God bless you.
From
Ellen
Date
Sunday, March 17, 2019
Message
Your daughters story is very helpful to many people who are suffering with mental demons. Thanks for having the courage to share her secret journal of her deepest thoughts and also helping others who are silently struggling too. Her purpose is ultimately to be the “voice” in the darkness of depression. Hugs to you all. Xo
From
Nikki Klonaris
Date
Sunday, March 17, 2019
Message
I just watched CBS Sunday morning . My heart aches for all of you May her Memory Be Eternal Nikki Klonaris Cleveland, Ohio
From
Carlos Arteaga Jr.
Date
Monday, November 19, 2018
Message
I would like to commemorate the glowing light of Alexandra Valoras' life on Earth, her unique and vital efforts, her place within a loving family, on her birthday. I learned of Alexandra's story shortly after CBS News had it told to the nation. I was deeply affected, and moved to tears. May those who knew her, and loved her deeply, cherish the memories, cherish her smiles, her presence among them as it was, and feel thanks that those moments happened at all, and live for the moments to come like them in Alexandra's memory...
From
John & Patricia Pavlov
Date
Friday, October 19, 2018
Message
Dean and Family: The trees seem like a very nice memorial to honor Alexandra's life. Peace, JP
From
Shannon
Date
Wednesday, September 26, 2018
Message
I lost my beloved Alex one month ahead of yours. What you are doing in honoring Alexandra's loss is helping me find a way to heal from mine. No parent should ever have to be a kindred spirit in this way, but I send you my heart, my empathy and understanding.
From
Gail Arrenholz
Date
Wednesday, September 26, 2018
Message
A mentor of mine shared that if we are given a dark hand in life, and we choose to transform it, then heaven (God consciousness expands). Transform it! 12 years ago my son took his own life. I now have 55 children for whom I am a mother figure. Keep going, your CBS sharing was a wonderful beginning. call for support and understanding: 520-449-3855
From
LJ
Date
Wednesday, April 04, 2018
Message
From your words, Alexandra sounds like a beautiful person, I did not have the privilege of knowing her. I am so sorry for your tragic loss. I am sorry for the pain in your hearts. As someone who has struggled with depression I know just how deep that darkness can be. I know right now the pain you feel is great and it can neither be explained nor removed by words. It is my hope that you find some comfort in the promise of the resurrection found in the scriptures. “There is going to be a resurrection.” (Acts 24:15) Those who have fallen asleep in death will be restored to life. They will not face the same pressures or anxieties that we face today, they will not be overcome by depression. “And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.” (Revelation 21:4) God will bring mankind everlasting comfort by destroying sickness, pain, and death. Very soon tears of sorrow will be replaced with tears of joy. May this hope help you to cope with the pain you feel, please accept my sincere condolences for your loss.
From
Brian Santon
Date
Sunday, April 01, 2018
Message
Dear Valoras family. I heard about Alexandra through the media. I'm sorry this happened. I cannot begin to comprehend the pain you feel right now. She had everything going for her. I know there are no words to comfort you. If you ever need to talk for whatever reason know that I'm here. I hope you find peace
From
Brandy Capistran
Date
Saturday, March 31, 2018
Message
I've felt the same too.I still do some days.I'm so sorry. One day you are good, and then in a split second you are not. It's hard to explain/ tell anyone. She is with God, and he will take care of her.
From
Michael and Mary Leach
Date
Saturday, March 31, 2018
Message
Dear Dean and Alysia, We just learned about Alexandra and are just so heartbroken. We pray for strength for you and your entire family. Our very deepest condolences. Love, Michael & Mary Leach
From
Stranger sending STRENGTH
Date
Friday, March 30, 2018
Message
May the STRENGTH from family, friends and strangers provide you with the ability to continue to get awareness and education out in Alexandra's memory! We are raising our children in a very stressful world with expectations of what they think they should be or do all around us. God Bless you ALL! You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
From
A BVT Mom
Date
Thursday, March 29, 2018
Message
Dear Valoras Family, I’m so very sorry for your loss. I hope the love and support of your family, friends and community can help guide you through this difficult time. Your beautiful Alexandra was a gift to all who knew her. She will be missed greatly and remembered fondly. Thank you for raising awareness by sharing Alexandra’s story. You’ll never know how many people you’ve helped.
From
Sean
Date
Thursday, March 29, 2018
Message
I am so sorry for your loss. I am the person that reported this to the State Police. I haven't been able to stop thinking about her since.
From
A Student From BVT
Date
Wednesday, March 28, 2018
Message
I am devastated to hear that Alex is no longer with us. No one should ever have to indulge the pain all of you are feeling. I personally wasn't best friends with you daughter but I can tell you how amazing she was just by only sharing a few words with her. Alex was someone that nobody could hate, her smile could brighten anyone's day in an instant. I will pray for your family as you go through this difficult time. Everybody's thoughts and prayers are with you. RIP Alexandra, you will never ever be forgotten.
From
jessica
Date
Monday, March 26, 2018
Message
I never met your daughter ,but I certainly felt the hurt ,and sadness of that day ... my heart goes out to you and your family ...I have been thinking of your beautiful daughter everyday, I am letting you know I care , I am ...sorry. for your immense pain .. ........love.......a empathetic stranger ...
From
Davy Dy-Nak, Jessica Ondrasek, Rennata St.Onge
Date
Monday, March 26, 2018
Message
Our deepest condolences to the family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family at this difficult time.
From
Jillian Napolitano
Date
Sunday, March 25, 2018
Message
Alex and I both participated in the student ambassadors program at BVT. She was always kind and patient while giving tours. She will be the reason why so many kids choose to come to BVT. The world lost a great mind, but an even greater heart. I am deeply, deeply sorry for your loss.
From
The Mason Family-Donna, Jon, & Chris
Date
Sunday, March 25, 2018
Message
Dear Alysia, Dean and Family, our hearts our heavy with heartbreak with you. We are so sorry for the loss of your beautiful, amazing daughter. Our deepest sympathy and prayers surround you. We met Alexandra and you at the BVT shop information night. My son is a freshman and he was very inspired and impressed with Alexandra and the projects she was working on. She took the time to answer our questions and her brilliance and enthusiastic spirit was evident. Alysia, you took the time to help us understand the great path the program leads to and the wonderful things your daughter was able to achieve, and her brilliant gifts she brought to the program. We were very grateful for meeting you both that night. Never underestimate just how much Alexandra was able to touch a life and make such an impression. We pray for your healing. We applaud your bravery and honesty to share Alexandra's pain and this too common health dilemma among our teens and young people. We hope unmeasurable good and new strides will come from Alexandra's story and other young people will be saved because of her. You raised a beautiful young woman with an infectious spirit and we know she will always be by your side, watching and reminding you she is there.
From
Nancy Cianciolo Antonietti
Date
Sunday, March 25, 2018
Message
Dear Dean and Alysia, I am so saddened to hear of the passing of your daughter. Alexandra sounds like an incredible person, as I'm sure any child of yours would be. My heart breaks for you, and I can only offer you my sincere prayers for grace.
From
Linda & Emily Massoni
Date
Sunday, March 25, 2018
Message
In memory of Alexandra Valoras. You will live on in every heart that loved you. Rest In Peace sweet girl...
From
John the Social Worker
Date
Sunday, March 25, 2018
Message
"Death lies upon her like an untimely frost; upon the sweetest flower of all the field" (Shakespeare) May God and the Blessed Virgin comfort you deeply in this time. May They sweeten, if only a little, the bitterness of your tears. I do not know you or your beautiful family. But I think of you and pray for you. And I thank you for your courageous words in your daughter's obituary: they may help others to see the painful signs in their loved ones. Often people want to hide such things. What you have done in these words is selfless, deeply loving, and generous. I wish every comfort upon you, with the deepest of sympathy.
From
Nikaila & Rachel Dube
Date
Saturday, March 24, 2018
Message
Although we didn’t know Alex more than a general conversation, let us tell you what a pleasure it was getting to speak with her. She was the person with the kindest heart and most intelligent mind. May her beautiful soul rest in the utmost peace. She was loved and will continue to be loved by so many.
From
Leigh Deveres and Sid Root
Date
Saturday, March 24, 2018
Message
For dearest Alexandra Lee. Rest in peace. Sending love and light to your parents and siblings.
From
Leigh Deveres and Sid Root
Date
Saturday, March 24, 2018
Message
Dearest dearest Alysia and Dean, we are profoundly sorry for your loss and offer our sincerest condolences to both of you and Emily and Nicholas. Words fail. Sending your family all our love.
From
Lou Carol & Paul Comley
Date
Saturday, March 24, 2018
Message
The unimaginable, untimely passing of Alexandra has touched many, many lives. While we don't know any words that will help the pain of missing her, please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
From
Mother that feels your pain
Date
Saturday, March 24, 2018
Message
My deepest condolences. I am so sorry for your loss, I will keep your family and your beautiful daughter in my prayers. Heaven has gained another angel. May God help you through this difficult time, and the angels help ease some of the pain. In my thoughts and prayers.
From
Alesa
Date
Saturday, March 24, 2018
Message
To the family and friends of Alexandra Valoras. I can't imagine the pain and sorrow you must feel losing a beautiful precious life. ....but our heavenly Father Jehovah does. It tells us at Psalms 34:18 " Jehovah is close to the brokenhearted. He saves those who are crushed in spirit. It saddened him when we shed tears of sorrow. Through his Words he gives us comfort and hope. The hope of seeing our dear loved ones again who have fallen asleep in death. As God's words promise at Isaiah 26:19 "Your dead ones will live. ..They will rise up.". When Jesus was on earth Matthew 10:8 says he "Cure the sick, raise up the dead showing what he will do in the near future for our love ones. May your warm memories also give you strength and comfort in these difficult times. With Deep Sympathy! Please visit our website JW.ORG for more information about the resurrection hope!
From
Satish
Date
Saturday, March 24, 2018
Message
Dean and family: I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Deepest sympathy to you and your family. May God give all of you strength, comfort and healing in the days to come.
From
Linda & Emily Massoni
Date
Saturday, March 24, 2018
Message
Why. My mind won’t let me stop wondering. As if knowing will bring some understanding to an act too tragic to process. It all seems very surreal. But then the grief hits. And since Monday, this is the cycle - disbelief and overwhelming sadness. I can’t imagine how this this must be for all of you - Dean, Alysia, Emily, and Nicholas. My heart breaks... Emily and I have known Alexandra since elementary school. The first things we came to know about her were her academic excellence and her amazing skills artistically. But as Emily’s and Alexandra’s friendship grew closer we got to know her giggle, her innocence, her kindness, her compassion, and her willingness not only to try new things, but her stubborn will to master them. She was an amazing girl. It was just a few short years ago we took Alexandra on a family vacation with us. Within a week she had seamlessly become a member of our family. She was so comfortable swimming with an aunt along the shoreline, boating with all the cousins, and playing mini golf with all the many of us. She didn’t miss any of our traditions. But I will never forget taking Alexandra water skiing. Your girl with her long lanky legs trying to keep those bobbing skis straight with that look of determination on her face. It had been several tries and she was shivering more each time as she got colder. We tried to get her back in the boat - but she wasn’t having it. “One more try” she kept saying. Her moment came - she was vertical - for maybe a full minute - and boy were her blue lips smiling! After that, she finally agreed to get out of the water. I was in awe. I have been going up to the lake every year since I was a kid myself and never had a vertical minute. Her perseverance was inspiring. Every family member in that boat was cheering. They had been cheering her on since she had gotten in the water. She had made such an impression on all of us. ... And when we started up the craft table, Alexandra was in her element. She could take smooth stones from the lake and easily transform them into painted birds and frogs. We found everyone was trying to imitate her beautiful projects. She was so creative and talented. My Emily will never forget that week in NH, their school days together, sleepovers, and birthday parties. She recently pulled a Christmas card Alexandra had made out of her memory box. It now sits on her nightstand. We remember too seeing your whole family at different events. The closeness and caring was visible and I never failed to notice it. Emily and Nicholas it was clear looked up to their big sister and the affection was clearly returned as we remember Alexandra would often say how proud she was of them. There was so much love... Your precious girl will never be forgotten. She touched and inspired so many of us. She will be missed beyond measure. We may never know the pain that caused this to happen but we will be forever grateful that we were blessed with Alexandra’s presence in our lives. Our deepest condolences and love to you Dean, Alysia, Emily, and Nicholas. I hope you can feel the warm embrace of the many many of us whose hearts are aching along with yours. May God give you the continued strength to get through one day at a time until your anguish in time can begin to heal. One of Alexandra’s many legacy’s will be a greater awareness on my part, and no doubt many others, of the behaviors and moods of those around me - especially teens. With this awareness, I am sure others will be helped. At this time of unimaginable grief how glad I am that you reminded us all.
From
Art & Lisa Sebastiano
Date
Saturday, March 24, 2018
Message
Dean & Alysia - words can't even begin to convey the sorrow and pain we are feeling for your loss. I wish we could say or do something to take your pain away but we know that isn't possible. We are here for you, in any way you need. It takes a village and we are part of your village. Your Friends. Art & Lisa
From
The Everlings
Date
Friday, March 23, 2018
Message
Your memory will live on in our hearts always.
From
Amy Skinder Meredith
Date
Friday, March 23, 2018
Message
Dear Dean and Alysia, Words cannot express the sadness I feel over your loss. Your daughter's obituary is written with such care, honor, and compassion. You are amazing parents. Depression is such a deceptive and incideous disease. In your daughter's honor, we will continue to fight the fight to better support mental health. Your are all in my thoughts and prayers.
From
Amy Groves-Blanchet
Date
Friday, March 23, 2018
Message
I graduated from high school with Danielle who is one of the sweetest people I have ever met. I am so sorry about Alexandra. I have a daughter her age who suffers from anxiety and depression so this is one of my biggest fears. I can't even begin to fathom your pain. I hope and pray that she is at peace and that all of your family and friends can comfort you through this. Her light will always shine bright. God bless you all.
From
Junko
Date
Friday, March 23, 2018
Message
Dear Dean and family, I am very sorry to hear the loss of a beautiful, bright, and caring daughter. My deepest sympathies. I am touched by your courageous obituary about observing loved ones and providing support, even if you already think you're doing that. I think it will save lives of others in the future. I can imagine Alexandra smiling at this prospect. Hugs and prayers.
From
Vessella Family
Date
Thursday, March 22, 2018
Message
Our hearts are saddened by your loss and our prayers are with you. May peace and comfort find you during this difficult time. We want to express our sympathy and let you know that our thoughts are with you.
From
Dawnette Niro
Date
Thursday, March 22, 2018
Message
Dear Valoras family I am not an acquaintance of your daughter or your family however I read on Facebook about this tragic happening I lost my son six years ago in the same manner and a year ago I lost my daughter’s son my grandson in the army also in the same manner I am just reaching out to comfort you no one knows the pain of losing a child especially in this way but one who has been there in my case twice I continue to reach out to young people as you say to let them know everyone cares and that there is help out there I support the suicide prevention charity and I want you to know my heart goes out to you and your family I will add her to my prayer list stay strong it takes time to heal after this but sorry to say it never goes away Dawnette Niro ( originally from Milford Ma) Now living in Fort Myers Florida
From
Deann Wisuri
Date
Thursday, March 22, 2018
Message
Dear Family, I'm so sorry for your loss. I do not know any of you, but I know depression. We need change and it is not gun laws that is the answer as it is much more likely a person who suffers from a mental illness take their own. We need education, we need acceptance from both the sufferer and the ones who suffer from them. A depressed person can only truly understand depression. Yet when they get to the point and think about death, the words that people say like “you are so smart”, “pretty/handsome”, “you have so much to live for”, “know who you will be hurting when you are gone’. Death seems suddenly appealing. Death seems to be the solution, to free everyone around the burden they feel they have become. The person who is invisible agony reaches a certain unendurable level where killing themselves somehow feels the same way a person who is trapped in a fire will eventually jump from a 2nd, 3rd-floor window. But the person who jumps from the burning building, their panic is real but they jump because they feel there no other option. This is much like the panic a person feels who want to “check out” their terror is as real as the flames by the fire that makes the person leap. When the person that is depressed feels the heat from the flames and get close enough, taking their life becomes the slightly less terrible of two terrors. It’s not fear of the fall, it’s the terror of the flames. Yet the people standing on the sidewalk yelling ‘Don’t!’ and ‘Hang on!’ can’t truly understand why they would jump when they can hear the sires in the background. You have to have personally been trapped and felt flames to really understand a terror way beyond falling.
From
Mandee Lape
Date
Thursday, March 22, 2018
Message
My most sincere condolences go out to all of you-- Emily, Nick, Alysia and Dean. I had the honor of being both Alexandra and Emily's teacher in middle school and I am absolutely heartbroken by this news. I have been struggling to comprehend and process this news, so I cannot even begin to imagine the emotions that you are all feeling. Alexandra was one of the brightest, most caring, diligent and lovely students I've known in my career. I selfishly would seat her next to my desk so she and I could exchange knowing glances or secret giggles during class. She was wildly mature and wise beyond her years. The work she created was nothing less than exceptional and I know she was revered by her classmates and will continue to be for years to come. Her obituary not only honored her to the level she deserved but also has brought people together in ways that I believe you hoped for. It was such a beautifully written tribute to such a beautiful soul. Alexandra will live on in the hearts of those who loved her, including mine. I urge anyone who reads the Valoras' message to take it to heart, to reach out a helping hand to those who need it most. I also urge educators to enact positive change in schools and help educate others to recognize warning signs of those in crisis. With the help of your message, Alexandra's legacy will do great things, as she was surely meant to do. I trust and pray that Alexandra is at peace and that she will watch over all of you and celebrate your lives from the comfort of God's loving arms.
From
Sophia McFetridge
Date
Thursday, March 22, 2018
Message
Alex was a wonderful girl, and amazing friend she will always be in my heart, and my memories she will continue to inspire me for the rest of my life and many more, my condolences to your family. She will always be in my heart.
From
Mary Ann Mueller
Date
Thursday, March 22, 2018
Message
Dean and family: I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
From
Tara Colaizzi
Date
Thursday, March 22, 2018
Message
Although I did not know Alexandra personally, my daughters did and we are all so heartbroken for the loss of this beautiful soul. There is not enough words to express our sorrow for the Valoras family during this difficult time. My most sincerest condolences on the loss of your daughter. May Alexandra Rest In Peace.
From
Lisa S.
Date
Thursday, March 22, 2018
Message
Though I didn't know your beautiful daughter, sister, friend, acquaintance my heart breaks for Alexandra and all who had her in their lives. I believe she knew she was loved and cherished by many. The sadness that overtook her cannot be comprehended by anyone, but her. Continue to support each other and show the kindness towards one another that Alexandra clearly showed everyone she came in contact with. Alexandra may you find the peace you've been seeking sweet girl. May you bring peace to your family and watch over them always.
From
Jen Meinen & The Southeast FCE Team
Date
Thursday, March 22, 2018
Message
Danielle and Family, We are so sorry for your loss, and pray for your peace now and throughout this painful journey.
From
Steve Fox
Date
Thursday, March 22, 2018
Message
Dean, words cannot begin to express my sadness for your family. Wanted to let you know that your family is in my family’s thoughts. Sincerely, Steve Fox
From
Lee Hume
Date
Thursday, March 22, 2018
Message
My condolences on your loss of a vibrant and intelligent daughter, sister, niece, granddaughter, friend. I did not know her, but I know depression. Thank you for spreading the word about depression; you may have saved someone's life in the future, and I think Alexandra would like that.
From
A Loving Stranger
Date
Thursday, March 22, 2018
Message
From
Cecile Lewis
Date
Thursday, March 22, 2018
Message
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. May God give all of you strength, comfort and healing in the days to come. Losing a child is never easy, and in this instance, worse of course. Our baby boy would be 20 in April and had died at birth. Not a day goes by that we think of him and what he'd look like and so much more. Keep your daughter's memories in your hearts forever and there will be a time when you can smile again. Remember, take one day at a time and don't be afraid to get counseling as well. There is nothing to be ashamed of. We did it! With prayers and sympathy to you all again.
From
Lana Silva
Date
Thursday, March 22, 2018
Message
Dean, Alisya,and the entire family I am so very sorry for your loss, Dean I have known you since we were kids. There are no words that I could express enough for my deep sympathy for you and your entire family, just know please that I am truly sorry and that I am sending you all love and prayers today and forever. <3 Lana
From
Tyler
Date
Thursday, March 22, 2018
Message
Coming to BVT, I didn't know anybody, and Alex was the first friend I made there. Our freshman year she was one of my best friends, with us both helping each other navigate a new world together. Whenever we talked she radiated such a friendly and positive vibe that it brightened anyone's day. I'm thankful to have met her and to have shared so many positive memories with her, and her legacy will continue to live on through everyone she touched.
From
Kathy Zosa
Date
Thursday, March 22, 2018
Message
My deepest sympathy for your loss. My thoughts and prays are with you at this difficult time.
From
Anonymous
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
Message
Our thoughts and prayers go out to your whole family! My daughters attended BVT and knew Alexandra and only had kind and sweet things to say about her. We are saddened by your loss and humbled by your memorial of her.
From
Audrey Miller
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
Message
Alex, I can’t believe you’re gone. It doesn’t feel real. I keep waking up think it was all just an awful dream and then when I realize it’s not I break down crying all over again. There is so much I wish I had said to you when you were still with us. You were always so sweet and caring. You weren’t judgmental and you didn’t care that I was weird. I can clearly remember when we started becoming such close friends it was like 4 years ago at chads pool party and I had always thought you were so cool, we started talking and I realized how much we had in common from our tastes in clothing to music and from then on I considered you one of my dearest friends!!! I only wish I could have told you all of this in person!!! You’re forever in my heart!!! -Audrey
From
Vella Ross
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
Message
I miss Alex with all of my heart. She was and will always be one of the best friends I have ever had and one of the most wonderful and inspiring people I have ever had the pleasure of knowing and nothing can ever change that. She brightened my day every time we had a conversation with her unique personality, positive attitude, and one of a kind sense of humor. We have been through so much together, from being on the same swim team for a number of years to navigating the challenges and joys of high school together. She was my very first friend that I had coming into BVT and since then our friendship has blossomed into something remarkable. We’ve shared so many wonderful memories that I will cherish for the rest of my life. My thoughts are with her family in this difficult time. Alex’s radiant, beautiful, and cat-loving soul will be missed. Love you always Alex. -Vella
From
Kimberly Shorey
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
Message
Alex was a beautiful girl inside and out. In school she would inspire me to work harder. Her kindness went further than she knew. Her kindness made me realize how far little things can go. She will be very missed by more people than she will ever know. She will always be in my thoughts.
From
Meghan Altavilla
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
Message
I am so sorry and deeply saddened by the loss one of the most brilliant and kind hearted girls I have ever met. She greeted everyone with a smile, reguardless if they were a stranger. I was lucky enough to have Alex as a part of the bvt cross country team and her cheering us on was something that meant more than anything to us. She was always humble despite her having so much to be proud of. She is in my thoughts and prayers, and trust that she is in God's arms.
From
Emily Salonich
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
Message
Alex is one of the most amazing, hilarious, quirky, fantastic, caring and loving people I have had the pleasure of calling a friend. She always new how to put a smile on my face and help me through the difficult classes we shared (which of course she could navigate through like they were nothing). We would bond over different gluten free foods at lunch where she would get annoyed (as annoyed as Alex can get, which isn’t a lot) at how many times I praised her for supporting her family and becoming gluten free. We would gossip about all of the latest occurrences with Dan Smith, the lead singer of bastille, AKA one of the only non-metal bands I ever heard her talk about. We would also party it up at all of my gatherings and parties, school dances, and other school and non-school events, gracing people with our terrible dance moves. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of the people she left behind especially her mom, dad, sister, and brother and I hope that for anyone reading this they can see the light she put in my life and the everlasting memories that she helped me and many others make. I will always miss you and remember you as the amazing cat loving person I met and grew to know for the past 3 years.
From
.
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
Message
Alex was one of the most intelligent, hardworking, brave, happiest people I have ever met. The world is that much little duller since she has past. She would never pass you in the hallway without saying hello and smiling that oh so infectious smile. She will be greatly missed and forever remember in the hearts. It is so tragic that no one saw the signs. She was always taking about how she adored her family, particually Emily. All she ever told me was how proud she was of her and how she had the best times with her. Alex will be watching down and protecting on her, nick, her entire family, and friends. Never will i meet someone with a greater thirst for leaning and adventure. You will be missed alex. Hope there is metal music and cats in heaven <3
From
The Christo family
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
Message
What God creates, God loves; and what God loves, God loves everlastingly. May He continue to warmly embrace Alexandra and all who knew her and remember her eternally.
From
Natalie Kirouac
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
Message
Alex was one of the best friends you could ask for. She was always there with advice, a stupid joke, or something new she’d learned. She was always there sitting next to me at lunch, making faces at me across class, and walking with me down the hall. I see her in everything I do, and that’s because she had such an effect on everyone she encountered. Alex is one of the most intelligent, spectacular people I’ve even met, if not the most. I love her and I miss her with my whole being. Seeing the flowers on the overpass broke my heart, but at the same time I was happy for her to see how much we love her and miss her. Allex and her family are in my thoughts and my heart.
From
Julia Atkins
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
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Alex and I were school friends because we were in similar classes and every time I saw her I instantly smiled. She gave off such happiness that effected everyone around her. When the teachers read the news to the students everyone was in shock, all of our smiles that she placed on her faces immediately left. Whether you were good friends with Alex or only have seen her in the hallway, she impacted your life. My heart goes out to her family and close friends I hope you find happiness again. Rest peacefully Alex we miss you
From
Judy Giovangelo
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
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my heart is broken for you and your family. My family experienced the loss of our beautiful Benjamin to suicide at 18 years old in 2009 in the town a few doors over from yours. I want you to know that I feel your pain and I am so deeply deeply deeply sorry for your loss. I started a nonprofit organization in my son's name called Ben speaks louder than words. To too many kids today are suffering inside and struggling with depression anxiety and the internal beliefs that they're just not good enough. if there is any way that I can support you personally that our organization can support you and your family please do not even hesitate to reach out when you are ready. On behalf of me and my family our deepest sympathy. Judy giovangelo
From
Diane Colaizzi
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
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I am deeply heartbroken by her loss of life. She was an amazing person through and through. I will always remember the jokes she used to make with me about Evanescence. She would always bring a smile to my face and I loved talking to her. She will always be a friend to me.
From
Lynn Konowitz
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
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I am so saddened by the loss of Alexandra. My heart goes out to her entire family, and to her friends, who are struggling to understand how such an ambitious and talented young woman could have felt like there was no other way out of her secret sorrows. I was her bus driver. I am also the mother of 3 daughters who all graduated from BVT. Alex was always smiling and talking about her school projects, and sometimes even lugged a robot or giant tool box onto the bus with her. When I heard the rumor that she had taken her life, I didn't want to believe it. They can train you for most things that you encounter as a bus driver, but nobody can prepare your heart for the call I got on Monday. Alex had so much talent and was so kind to everybody. She always said "good morning" when getting on the bus. I wish I could have known what was going on inside of her, and could have had the chance to let her know how loved she was by everybody who came into contact with her. She was a model student. I pray that she has found peace and rest at last. My prayers and sympathy are for all of those who are missing her.
From
Thomas Gamache
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
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Alexandra was such a kind, intelligent, and sweet person. I was fortunate enough to have her as a student my first year teaching in Grafton. She had such a warm presence, as her intelligence, humor, and amiable nature were all blessings to our classroom. She made me a card at the end of the year that was intricately folded and featured a drawing on it, taking the time to thank me for a great year. She came to visit me a number of times over the years, sharing with me her experiences in high school and desire to go into engineering. In my ten years of teaching, she is my first former student to pass away and it’s heartbreaking. I’ve seen the devastating effects of her loss firsthand on her friends and can’t even begin to imagine how her poor family must feel. The world will certainly miss out on the great gifts she was yet to bestow on us. My heart goes out to her family and friends.
From
The Fogarty Family
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
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We are so saddened to hear of your loss. Alexandra was a joyful, intelligent, caring and creative (I listened to her Ableton "Alexandra's Theme" musical creation when I learned of her passing) young woman. As a father of 3 children also, I let each one of them know how much they are loved as I know you and Alysia have always done with your own children. There aren't words enough to express how sorry we feel for your entire family and all those whose lives Alexandra has touched. I am sure she will always be remembered as a dear daughter, sister, granddaughter, niece, friend, classmate, and robotics competitor.
From
Colleen Torrence
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
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Love you all, Dean, Alysia, Emily, and Nicholas. And love you, Alexandra. I am deeply grieving for you all, for the unknown hurt and sadness felt, to the loss of a loving, generous, intelligent, and gentle person in our world. Alexandra will be missed greatly. Hold each other through this time and beyond, and love each other completely.
From
Morelli Family
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
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We are truly sorry for your loss. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time and always.
From
Neves Family
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
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We are truly sorry for your loss.
From
Lauren Gray
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
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I am a Junior at Blackstone Valley Tech, a classmate of Alexandra. When I heard she passed and how it happened, my mind couldn’t accept it. Alex was such a kind and sweet girl. She was nice to everyone she met. The times i talked to her were few, but yet life impacting. When I picture her, all i can see is her smiling face. I am so sorry for your loss, I can’t image what you are going through. I hope she has found peace. Alex will be greatly missed.
From
Kristen
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
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I am so sorry for your loss, I never new your daughter. But I am a mother of 2 teens at Nipmuc. My sincere condolences to your family!
From
Tom Mayo
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
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My sincere condolences. I pray for the family and friends.
From
Michelle Debatis
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
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We are shocked and deeply saddened by the loss of sweet Alexandra. She was truly a beacon of light... beautiful, talented, and above all so very kind! Jennifer will miss her friend, and I will miss her smiling face and amazing personality! May God bless you all and help you to find peace. We are thinking of you and we extend our deepest condolences. The Debatis family
From
Nancy Tauras
Date
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
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So very sorry and saddened by your loss. Your words for all of us to be more aware and caring of people that we know or encounter is truly a show of strength and concern for others. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Nancy Tauras