Condolence: I grew up with Jay in Grafton. I have fond memories of him, both his parents, their house and barn on North Street, and his sister Wendy. I also remember his younger brother Kent, who was killed while riding a bicycle in town. Jay's father Seth used to take us skiing at Mt. Sunapee in NH, for which I was so grateful. Jay was a wonderful childhood friend. He will be missed.

Condolence: Karen and family. My condolences on your loss, and my apologies for not being at the wake. I prefer to remember people as they were, and the last time I saw Jay, he was happy and we were joking around. He was a wonderful man, and I considered him to be a friend. The world has lost one of its best.

Condolence: Jay drove me everyday to work. I loved his stories and he showed me pictures of his grand children and places he traveled to. He was the nicest man I have ever known. I will miss him and think of him all the time. God bless to your family.

Condolence: To Jay's Wife Karen and His Entire Family-Sincerest Condolensces on The Passing of One of the Most Wonderful and Kindest Souls I've ever known. I'll certainly miss Jay. Sincerely, Daniel Kneeland

Condolence: I am so very sorry for you loss Melinda and Andrea and the rest of the family. May he rest in peace and watch over all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of your family.

Condolence: To the Martin family although I have not yet met you all I do know Brian and I am very sorry for your loss Brian has told me about his dad and from listening to him I know he was a wonderful man sending you all hugs and love. Barbara,Toni's mom